Why I Don't Want 2 Men

(written on 6/4/2022)

Queer and Polyamorous Moment

I accepted myself as a Bi polyamorous woman in 2018 when I was 26 years old.

But before that, ALL of my nonmonogamous experiences had been SOLELY with men.

Whether that was romantically or sexually.

High school and college were fun times lol.

Once I discovered I was bisexual and came upon polyamory simultaneously,

It really posed the question of why would I EVER choose?

I hated having to choose between men romantically (happened 3 separate times in my life). And now I'd have to choose between men and women??

Nope that's not gonna work for me.

Now some bi folk are monogamous. They only have energy for one relationship at a time. They only have the capacity to love one person at a time.

But I have the energy and capacity for two. Two romantic partners simultaneously. (I had a higher capacity for casual sex when I was younger)

And if I'm polysaturated after two, it no longer made sense to me to have my two partners both be men.

Why would I deny myself with women any longer?

I would be doing my life an extreme disservice if I wasn't with a woman.

So for me, one man and one woman it is. And not a triad.

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