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Coming Out to Your Partner
- LifeIsRocqi
- Jul 4
- 2 min read
(written on 9/2/2022)
Bi Moment
I came out to my life partner (best friend at the time) as bisexual. He was the first person I EVER came out to. Before even myself. He still accepted me. He still unconditionally loved me.
Meanwhile I've heard horror stories. Husbands calling their wives abominations. Using their wife's sexuality for their own sexual satisfaction.
Maybe that's why I talked about LGBTQ+ rights on first dates. A response will tell you what you need to know.
I came out to my partner as polyamorous. He still accepted me. He still unconditionally loved me.
Again, I've heard of other experiences. Especially from those coming out within a marriage. And sometimes that means the end of it.
Whereas my growth and realization sparked his. (After that is when we actually started our partnership).
2018 was a wild year.
During this #bipride month, I reflect on how fortunate I am to have such a supportive and understanding partner.
To the point he was my wingman at my first Queer day party. (And yes the guys were eyeing him. Lol Thankfully he's very secure in his heterosexuality).
He was there when I came out to my mom. Both times. (Bi & polyam)
He listens to things I've learned about and am excited to share. I definitely went deep into research mode when I was questioning.
And I got really excited the other day when I found a children's book about LGBTQ+ people in history and realized he'll be by my side as I teach our children about my community and culture.
He's supportive of me working with LGBTQ+ organizations in Guyana to change the criminalization of homosexuality there.
4 years later, this month, I am completely free in who I am. I have met some amazing women. And I have had the support of my partner the entire time.
I am so thankful
Happy Bi Pride Month!!
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