Why Be In A Relationship, If Not Monogamous?

(written on 9/23/2022)

Polyamorous Moment

It's always fascinating when monogamous folks completely don't understand the purpose of being in a committed relationship if it's not monogamous.

Like all benefits of relationships goes out the window if it's not monogamous.

• Like who wants someone investing their time, energy, and effort into you?

• Who wants someone invested in meeting your needs?

• Who wants someone who can emotionally support you as you experience the challenges of life?

• Who wants someone to have your back?

• Who wants someone you can depend on?

• Who wants to physically be healthier because of all the hormones released with love and affection?

• Who wants to have joy in their life because they have someone they can do activities with, laugh with, and build a wider community with family and friends?

Like none of that matters if it's not solely one person doing that...

But imagine if you had more than one person providing all that...

Cause you don't get all that from casual dating nor casual sex. Connection may be there. But compatibility usually is not.

Consistency isn't always there.

A deeper connection may not be there.

All that to say, relationships provide more benefits than just monogamy.

And many people desire commitment. And that's not limited to one person.

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